tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5816833.post114714126820017284..comments2024-03-15T03:20:04.790-04:00Comments on Reflections...: You see what I see?RShttp://www.blogger.com/profile/11472333363851646195noreply@blogger.comBlogger5125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5816833.post-1147462486312212452006-05-12T15:34:00.000-04:002006-05-12T15:34:00.000-04:00subha - Know exactly what you mean :)dinesh - Defi...subha - Know exactly what you mean :)<BR/><BR/>dinesh - Definitely easier said than done but I will give weightage to the fact that you are way ahead of me in this exercise! :)<BR/><BR/>hellboy - "i guess its because i was right in the first place :-)"<BR/><BR/>*grin*<BR/><BR/>Maybe the key is in *really* listening.<BR/><BR/>parth - Thats another phrase I have heard often and that I am fighting hard to implement. For some reason, in my mind, my battles seem more like full fledged wars and I give my full effort to all of them - I need to fix that!RShttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11472333363851646195noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5816833.post-1147419924712110992006-05-12T03:45:00.000-04:002006-05-12T03:45:00.000-04:00There's value in being tolerant to differences. Th...There's value in being tolerant to differences. The smart thing is to pick your battles on what you'll disagree on. Especially if its your spouse you want to disagree with :-)Parthhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10756964089084413413noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5816833.post-1147403279802097812006-05-11T23:07:00.000-04:002006-05-11T23:07:00.000-04:00I think it is a part of the growing up process or ...I think it is a part of the growing up process or as you have mentioned - climbing the long ladder of wisdom. as we grow and gain wisdom we tend to realize that it is ok for others to see something in a way different from us and it is not necessarily a bad thing.<BR/><BR/>I used to be like that and used to think “its my way or the high way". these days i am good at listening to others view and then present what i think. quite often the other person seems to sway towards what i say - i guess its because i was right in the first place :-)Hellboyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16206178917576842172noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5816833.post-1147287964545514542006-05-10T15:06:00.000-04:002006-05-10T15:06:00.000-04:00Hmm ! Nice write up...Like you, I believe everythi...Hmm ! Nice write up...<BR/><BR/>Like you, I believe everything lies in vantage points as well. Because, how I see it now, I know is different how I saw it a few years back. Which means it will be different from how I see it a few years from now. But that doesn't make me wrong now ! <BR/><BR/>Yes, the struggle to accept the differences is always on. Because only by its acceptance, can we seek little peace to ourselves. If not, more than the people that broke our expectations, it's us that suffer ! Why do we have to struggle for somebody else's mistake ? A nice balance between reasonable expectations and ability to accept the difference is required. Easier said than done eh ?dineshhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17421530714224849663noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5816833.post-1147207394835257012006-05-09T16:43:00.000-04:002006-05-09T16:43:00.000-04:00>>and even if I can't help but expect, >>then to j...>>and even if I can't help but expect, >>then to just accept the difference.<BR/><BR/>Here I was, thinking I was pretty good at accepting differences. I was given a rude jolt recently that maybe I wasn't as accepting as I thought I was! :) <BR/>It requires constant monitoring..a few like-minded friends is all we need to fall into complacency- to think that the world thinks the way we do (and of course, our way is THE right way!:)). <BR/>Anyways, I am leaving a much longer comment than I intended to. So here I stop.The Doodlerhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02918716290391569295noreply@blogger.com